what love really mean ?

I ever read quote says " it's not hard to find someone who will tell you that they love you, it's hard to find someone who really means it".

I have been thinking about this quote because I ever felt so hurt when someone whom said love me but also very easily cheat with others.

Well maybe this time, I will talk about love relationship, or maybe marriage life, although I'm still single.

I knew some people whom their partner cheat with other. Just curious, in this time, does the true love still exist or just lip service ? Does love mean only when you're looking good, have good career and good salary, then we can stick together. But how about if your partner gain weight 5kgs or more, or if they lose their job or they bankrupt, or if they lose their outer beauty ? Because every earthy thing will fade away.

I also knew some women whom really try hard to look good, so their partner will stick together with them. And sadly their partner still looking for someone else and cheat on her. Some women need to do plastic surgery as request from their husband, and seriously look so much different.

People said, that's the reason you should find your partner in the church, etc. But hey, I exactly knew someone whom active in their local church but also cheat with other. I didn't judge them for what they have been doing. I just feel sorry for that thing could be happened.

What love really mean ? Can love relationship be sacred and pure, without base on appearance, career, money or anything else ?

If you are Christian and read this blog, do you still remember your marriage promises before the Lord ? Did you say .. only love your partner only when they are good, only when they are rich ??

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