Relationship

I'm not talking about love relationship with boy and girl. I just want to mention about our relationship with God and with other people. Both relationship are very important in our life.

One girl whom I met on Friday night, she's a working street. I didn't speak with her to be honest. All I know she adopted by Christian family, and got marry with good Christian man and have children. She was a sunday school teacher before. Maybe she had good life before the storms come. Her parents die, one of her childer also passed away, and her husband also. So she depressed and ran to alcohol, and the other children have take away by the government.

I don't want judge her. But her life story has opened my eyes about build a good foundation relationship with our Heavenly Father. He is the one whom never leave us or forsake us. He is the one whom will give us comfort. So when the storms of life come, we can fully assure come to Him.

We also need others people, people that can make us grow in God and so when the storms come, we also have someone that encourage us to seek God first instead of run to earthly stuffs that will destroy us.

The important things in any relationship is honesty and humility. We need to be honest what we truly feel, and accept with humility if God or our friend give critism.

A lot of people maybe scare to speak the truth or to be honest. I also even experience that stage, I scare if I tell them the truth they will hate me or they don't want to be my friend anymore, etc. But at the end, it's better to be honest, especially to God. Well, I just realize no matter what honesty still the key to build relationship, and it's make you free.

Rick Warren said in his book Purpose Driven Life : "You can develop humility in very practical ways : by admitting your weaknesses, by being patient with other's weaknesses, by being open to correction, and by pointing the spotlight on others"

I hope you and me can build good relationship with God and with others. :) .